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Keeping Care Alive, part 2: Practices for Working with Being

In everyday language, care is often treated as an emotion. We speak of caring as a feeling we have toward people, causes, or outcomes. Sometimes it is framed morally—as kindness or concern—and other times therapeutically, as empathy or emotional availability.

In Part 1 of this series, I argued that something essential is lost when care is reduced to sentiment. I also distinguished between two different ways of understanding care: psychology and ontology. Psychology interprets experience—explaining feelings, motivations, and patterns of behavior. Ontology, by contrast, discloses the structures that shape how experience is possible in the first place.

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By |2026-06-03T14:31:16-04:00February 17th, 2026|Blog, Mental Models|0 Comments

Politics, Coaching, and the Practice of Democracy

Democracy is not an end state. It is not just a value or a process.
Democracy is a commitment to a way of being.

This commitment invites a more human view of politics — not as a struggle for control, but as the courageous work of shaping what’s possible together amid differences. Without the inner disciplines shared by coaching and human development, democracy can easily become reactive, transactional, or hollow.

Since November 2024, I’ve reflected more deeply on what it means to live within a pluralistic democracy — the most defining and fragile feature of the American experiment. To address this inquiry, I DOWNLOAD PDF

By |2026-06-03T14:31:40-04:00November 17th, 2025|Blog, Learning/Coaching, Practice|0 Comments

A Wisdom Diet: Daily Reading for Clarity and Care

A colleague sends me an invitation to try a new app. Everyone’s talking about it. The instinct’s quick: sign up, log in, join the stream—don’t fall behind. Before I click accept, I pause.

What part of me is eager here? The part that wants connection? The part that fears being left out? The part that hungers for novelty, distraction, or recognition? Technology, itself, isn’t the issue—it’s how it feeds needs, sometimes at others’ expense.

So, I ask: Does this serve me? If it does, which me does it serve? The one who seeks wisdom or the one who craves noise? The one DOWNLOAD PDF

By |2026-06-03T14:33:23-04:00September 15th, 2025|Blog, Wisdom|2 Comments
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